Dennis Lanigan

Palm Coast Observer
Tributes & Obituaries

Dennis Lanigan
1948-2022

It is with extreme sadness that we announce the passing of Dennis Lanigan, loving husband, beloved father, dedicated grandfather, and loyal friend to all. Despite his small stature, Dennis stood out in any crowd with his mischievous grin, outgoing personality, unshakable character, and incomparable generosity.

Yes, his stories often sounded like they were derived from the pages of famous books or movies, but they were real!

Dennis died a loved and admired man on June 7, 2022. On October 25, 1948, Dennis came to be, joining his 6 siblings and close extended family. Prior to calling Palm Coast, FL home, Dennis resided in Southington, CT for many years. Dennis leaves behind his beloved wife of 46 years, Diane, with whom he shared a son, Nicholas (Jessica) and daughter, Ashley (Ryan). He took so much joy in seeing his grandchildren grow into nice, caring individuals. Without question, Dennis will forever be looking down from heaven with the utmost pride watching Gianna dance like an angel, Elijah hitting dingers, Ryder protecting the neighborhood and Wyatt exploring our natural surroundings. Dennis cherished his big family and never let petty things get in the way of his relationships. He leaves behind his brothers Richard (Donna), William (Sue), Patrick (Terri); bothers-in-law, Bruce (Kim), Roger (Bonnie), Douglas (Charlotte); and sister-in-law, Debbie. Dennis is also survived by many nieces and nephews, whom he loved and cherished. As Dennis entered the gates of heaven, he was welcomed by his parents, Chester and Doris; in-laws, Harold and Edith; brother, Bob; sisters, Delores and Pamela; brothers-in-law, Brian and Norman; and his life-long friend, Gary McCahill. Although we would give anything to have Dennis here with us, we take solace in knowing he is with family, friends, and our Lord. Dennis’ work ethic and leadership was unsurpassed. He worked tirelessly to provide a wonderful life for his family. Dennis was an accomplished leader with Allstate Insurance for over 38 years. He took a tremendous amount of pride in his work and his accomplishments. He worked his way up the corporate ladder to achieve success he never took for granted considering the modest beginning of his career. Although he took a great deal of pride in his accomplishments at work, Dennis cared more about and cherished the friendships he built throughout his time at Allstate. Thank you to all his Allstate friends that kept in touch and supported Dennis, especially Pam Driscoll, Karen Blanchard, and Michael Perrone. As Dennis was quick to point out (rightfully so), his memory was like an elephant, which served him well considering he loved telling stories and reminiscing about simpler times. Yes, his stories often sounded like they were derived from the pages of famous books or movies, but they were real! For those that had the privilege of hearing his captivating stories, please take the opportunity to re-tell his stories so others can laugh as hard as so many have in the past. There are far too many stories to list but some of our favorites are: growing up in Tarriffville; narrowly surviving the “great flood;” the time his brother-in-law was chased out of town (it’s not appropriate to tell the reason but ask those in-the-know and you won’t regret it); and the time his father (Chester) ran his neighbor’s car into the woods because he was parked in the Lanigan’s driveway. Dennis left many of us with life lessons that have and will continue to serve us well. Some lessons that stand out, include how to tie a tight, professional necktie; hitting a high arcing jump shot that rivaled the great Robert Parish; swinging the golf club nice and easy to rip the cover off the ball; always think before you speak; offer a helping hand before blame; put caring ahead of winning; family always comes first; and when you shake a person’s hand your goal is to break it (absolutely never a limp handshake!). He had a life-long love affair with Lipton tea, toast, oatmeal, chocolate, ice cream, old cars and watching old TV shows/movies (especially Apple Dumpling Gang and anything with John Wayne). He loved his daily routines and wouldn’t let anything get in his way of sticking to his routines – often making us late getting out the door! Dennis, finally, is at rest, and we will hold him close for eternity. Please hold him close in your mind and spirit. Comfort and peace now Dennis. You will be missed beyond words can express. Your legacy will last forever in the memories you leave us with, and lessons passed down. Always thinking of others ahead of himself, Dennis requested that, in lieu of a service, everyone do whatever makes you happy and, if only for a moment, think of him and smile. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, https://www.stjude.org/donate, a charity Dennis supported for many years or a charity of your choice. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family. As Papa would always say to his grandchildren, “see you round like a donut.” Heritage Funeral and Cremation Service is in charge of the arrangements.

You will be missed beyond words can express.

DONATIONS:
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, https://www.stjude.org/donate, a charity Dennis supported for many years or a charity of your choice.